Attract positive vibes and positive people and you are guaranteed a happy, amazing and fulfilling life.
Think, speak and act with positivity. The way you think and how you react on things have so much say on how your life is going to be.
Here are some simple tips on how you can improve your outlook in life:
1. Count your blessings and be grateful.
The secret to having an abundant life is a grateful heart. When you throw gratitude, abundance will come pouring in.
”Acknowledging the good that you already have in your life is the foundation for all abundance.” Eckhart Tolle
Make it a habit to recognize the things that you have been blessed with, including those that money cannot buy. Instead of looking into your neighbor’s basket try to count what is in yours. If you find nothing in there, at least be thankful for the basket.
When you learn to be grateful for every little thing in your life the more you will realize that there are so much more in your life to be grateful for. When you learn this fully, you will appreciate life like never before.
2. Choose the people you hang out with; Choose your friends wisely.
Surround yourself with people who believe in your capacity and your dreams. Choose your friends wisely. If you are hanging out with people who constantly doubt your ability, who insensitively laugh at your dreams and brusquely convince you that “you just can’t”, then don’t expect your way towards any of your goals will be easy. Hang around with people who inspire you to unleash your potentials. Hang around with people who are living their dreams. Hang around with people who make you want to be better.
Life is so short and good chances come very rarely so leave everything that makes your journey heavy. Get rid of anything that drags you. Remind yourself that you deserve good words and good wishes. Remind yourself that you deserve inspiration and not destruction. Remind yourself that in the process of getting to your destination you want to enjoy your journey and that is why you are hanging out with good people who want nothing but your best to shine out in you. Remind yourself that in the process of getting to your destination you also want to inspire others, that is why you are hanging out with people who make you feel good about yourself; people who believe and support your endeavors.
3. Read good books; watch motivating videos and listen to the wisdom of the elders or experienced ones.
Sometimes you don’t have to learn things the hard way. You don’t have to repeat the mistakes of other people in order to learn the same lesson. There is really sense in listening to the advice of the elders, because “they have been there”. Learn from their experience, good or bad.
Always make sure that you start the day with enough motivation and inspiration. Read good books or watch motivating videos on your spare time. Their motivating words or stories can inspire you to persevere for your goals.
Here are some suggested readings which can motivate you to achieve what you want, to want what you have and to help you understand life’s profound meaning:
- The Secret by Rhonda Byrne
- The Power by Rhonda Byrne
- Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
- Warrior of the Light by Paulo Coelho
- Being Happy by Andrew Matthews
- Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren
- Eat, Pray and Love by Elizabeth Gilbert
4. Always look at the brighter side of things.
When things don’t go the way you plan it and when the weather is not in your favor, try to still look for the good in the situation. If you practice and develop this kind of attitude you will not fret on things, you will not regret and you will not fear. You will realize that there is good reason why some things happened or did not happen. You will learn to embrace everything that is happening as part of your beautiful journey and that there is an opportunity in every challenges.
Looking at the brighter side of things is not settling on life’s consolation but accepting that there are things beyond your control and that life is too precious to waste it on resentment and frustration. Looking at the brighter side of things is focusing on the good thing, because that is what you deserve.
5. Keep unlimited Hope in your heart.
Hope makes a person look forward to tomorrow. Hope gives a person a reason not to give up because there is always a chance for him. Hope helps a person to be patient on things he wants to happen. Hope secures a person of a better tomorrow. Hope teaches one to trust. Hope strengthens one’s faith. If you have hope in your heart no matter how small it is it can take you to places, it can make things possible even though it seems impossible in the beginning.
6. Pray and Connect to God.
If you connect to God you will never be disconnected to yourself. In fact, in the process of getting to know God, you will get to know yourself too. With God in your life, life has more meaning and sense. With God in your life, nothing and no one can put you down because His grace will strengthen you. There are no bad or good days, everything is beautiful. It will change the way you feel, think, speak and act. It will change you for the better. Your relationship with God is the best relationship you can ever have because as your relationship with Him deepens that more you want to be the best person you can ever be and you will start to look at life like never before.